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You're addicted...
Brought to you by The Build In Private Newsletter Gen Z's Obsession with Overconsumption And why believing it gives us more value is so dangerous Hi love, Something has been on my mind lately. With every year that passes and every birthday that comes and goes, I catch myself wondering, When will I finally feel complete? When will I feel like I've truly arrived? Maybe you've asked yourself the same question. Maybe you think it'll happen once you have the house, the relationship, the savings...
The Art of Going Missing
Brought to you by: The Build In Private Newsletter The Art of Going Missing Hi my love, It’s been a while, and I want to talk about why. Several months ago, I came across a speech by Lauryn Hill about winning an award for her album The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill. It made me even more magnetized by her radiance, but beyond that, I felt her realness. She said something that I haven’t been able to forget: “I can’t create and not live.” She was speaking about the pressure to continuously create,...
You Must Be Growing...
Brought to You By The Build In Private Newsletter If you haven't felt like yourself lately, you must be growing.. Hi my love, I realized something the other day: I had just experienced two of the most incredible weeks. Every morning I woke up feeling genuinely good and it felt like no matter what happened, nobody and nothing could ruin my day. For the first time in a while, I felt as though a huge weight had been lifted from my chest. There were many things that had contributed to that...
Winter Arc Already? Girl, We Need to Talk.
Brought to you By The Build In Private Newsletter Your 2027 Rebrand Starts Now 2027 Rebrand: The “Winter Arc” Came Early Hey girl, I hate to be the one reminding you, but we officially have about four months left in the year. That means we’re getting ready to enter quarter four. But who would I be if I wasn’t honest with you? The year may not have gone exactly as you imagined. Maybe you started with a long list of goals, a brand-new planner and the determination to make this your year. Then...
Am I an "It Girl?"
Brought to you By The Build In Private Newsletter Am I an "It Girl?" In today's issue we're debunking a myth. What it means to actually be an it girl. Keep reading. You'd be surprised. This damn question would not leave my head. Am I an "it girl?". For much of my life I tried to do it all. Hot girl walks while sipping on my matcha and listening to a podcast episode Retaining the information but also listening to the sound of nature and remembering to be present (I rarely ever was) And...
How to Stop the Poison Before It Spreads
Brought to you by The Build In Private Newsletter How to Stop the poison before it spreads Let me be really honest for a second. Because I have to be... I'm not someone who advocates for a life of isolation with no one around to love and support you, but I am realistic. And if we're talking reality let's be real. Not everyone is to be trusted and trusting the wrong people can cost you a lot in the long term. If you're someone who gives your energy too easily to the wrong people, then this...
Becoming a Shape-Shifter.
THE BUILD IN PRIVATE NEWSLETTER How to shape-shift click the video to learn how :) Every powerful woman is a shape-shifter. Because she's willing to outgrow versions of herself that no longer fit. Most people spend years trying to preserve an identity they've already outgrown. The powerful woman does the opposite. She lets old versions of herself die. She doesn't wait until she feels ready. She doesn't negotiate with her emotions. She becomes obsessed with something meaningful, bets on...
Why Your Summer Feels the Same Every Year
Issue #3 Why Your Summer Feels the Same Every Year The Truth No One Wants to Admit Ever wonder why your summer feels the same every year? You tell yourself: "This summer is going to be different." And for a few weeks, it is. You create a new Pinterest board and imagine becoming a completely different version of yourself. But then September arrives and somehow you feel even more behind now. And if you're wondering why... It's because seasons don't change people. Habits do. Choices do....
Freedom has a price
What happens when you stop needing everyone to like you? Hint: Some pretty incredible shifts that you immediately feel within you. Things I Realized after I Stopped Needing Everyone to Like Me I think one of the most expensive habits a woman can have is needing everyone to approve of her. Not financially expensive. But Life energy expensive. Because the more energy you spend managing other people's perception of you, the less energy you have left to actually live your life. I found through my...
Here’s what I wish someone told me…
Romanticize Your Life or Stay Broke Romanticize Your Life or Stay Broke I know that title sounds dramatic, but hear me out. One of the biggest things that changed when I started romanticizing my life was that I started earning more money. Not because I suddenly became more productive. But because I simply started finding ways to enjoy my life again. So many of us are waiting. Waiting to wear our favorite outfit until there’s a special occasion. Waiting to keep our space clean until we move...
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